How do you love with a sad face
The ultimate question in life is how do you know you're in love? I think rather than ask the question of how do we know, we should be asking ourselves how do we love. Our society is so obsessed with not dating that we make it mandatory to discuss friends with benefits or even watch relationships crumble over social media. Nowhere have we discussed the question how do we love? What do we do to let love in and accept it anyway we can? We are driven by the whims of social media like a herd of sheep follow a wolf.
Love is not a word we should only associate with relationships. We narrow our minds if we allow ourselves to become obsessed with someone else to the point that we no longer know who we are. The type of love we should engage in is full love. We have to accept ourselves for our flaws, and accept who other people are. You can not love if you're not ready to lose. Love is the power to have a deep affection for someone or something. We can not limit ourselves to loving one person, pet, or career because we are busy people right?
Have you ever sat in your room and wondered why people cheat? Or even why people refuse to divulge themselves into the feeling of euphoric happiness? It’s simple. We are a society that falls to the whims of social media and dating apps or sexual attention. It’s as simple as if they see a thousand people using it they are more likely to click the app, or listen to the media. I think that dating apps are overrated, and people need to put down their phones to talk to each other. Too many people obsess over their love for facebook, or mobile games that once your partner has suspicion your cheating their first instinct is to check your phone. I’m sorry. But if you're so weak willed that some man or woman on facebook seems more alluring than your partner you may need to reevaluate your relationship.
I express that love should not just be focused on a significant other because you should understand that there are several definitions for love. I love the passion that writing drives in me just like I love a man’s touch. You can’t equate the feelings equally but you can love each at the same time. It’s a figment of our imagination that anyone can love us as much as we love them because each person feels, and thinks differently. We need to love ourselves, and each other even in the bedroom. You can run your hands all over me and if I don’t feel you care I’ll be as hollow as a tree trunk at your touch. Caring more and feeling more needs to become a thing.
A society that lives in fear of being close to one another is a society of unattached idiots. If you think about it our bodies are meant for reproduction with a stigma that the child should know both parents but with protection it makes it so that people can forget about the baby carrying and focus on the sexual activity constantly. The honest truth about love is that you can’t pick it. It’s not something you can choose among the thousands of people based on your own criteria. We have standards but standards are thrown out the window with love. Physically love pertains to a physical bliss between bodies but anyone can do that. The way I think about is if you can rock my brain mentally I will give you everything I have full hearted without fear. It’s just the way I am. I plunge into darkness aware of being hurt.
We are a society driving hate against clowns who have always shown us love. My favorite clown stretch the clown is now being looked as bad this halloween and I can’t help but wonder why our society is driven by social media? If we drive ourselves through a barrel of hate we become no better than dictators to ourselves.
Anyways, I wonder how do you love? Please as always share, comment, and like the page up.
P.S This post was inspired by this song ;